By Richard A. Isay
What's love obtained to do with it? every thing, in accordance with Richard Isay's knowledgeable and illuminating examine the position of romance in glossy homosexual lifestyles. I hugely suggest this booklet for individuals of any new release and partnership status.
--Dean H. Hamer, Ph.D., writer of The technological know-how of wish and The God Gene
""Richard Isay deals whatever much better than basic bromides and fake wish. during this e-book, he demanding situations us with a provocative, illuminating, and eventually hopeful examine ourselves and explains how these people who yearn to like and be enjoyed (and who doesn't?) can top locate happiness and therapeutic in a dedicated relationship.""
--Eric Marcus, writer of The Male Couple's consultant and jointly Forever
""Many homosexual males (and others, too) are inclined to locate this publication quite fascinating and beneficial. In a chain of vividly illuminating case histories and with a psychoanalyst's intensity and readability of perception, Richard Isay lucidly explains why homosexual males have specific hassle in constructing and maintaining loving relationships and the way they could sensibly increase their probabilities of doing so.""
--Harry G. Frankfurt, Ph.D., writer of On Bullshit and the explanations of Love
""Richard Isay's portrayals of homosexual men's lives usually are debatable. Isay isn't the stereotypical psychoanalyst who sits quietly whereas his sufferers ramble--and we are the entire greater for that. He has anything to claim and what he says is worthy listening to. This provocative ebook will be learn via a person who yearns for yet hasn't but discovered genuine love.""
--William Rubenstein, Founding Director of the Williams Institute on Sexual Orientation legislation and previous Director of the ACLU Lesbian & homosexual Rights Project
""Based on Dr. Isay's 3 many years of expertise operating with homosexual males in treatment, this can be a deeply considerate learn of the problems homosexual males may well adventure with falling and staying in love. For a homosexual guy, interpreting this ebook can cause him to revisit a few darkish areas alongside his personal life's trip, however it also will supply him a glimpse of the self-affirmation and skill for switch which are the pursuits of gay-positive psychotherapy.""
--Simon LeVay, Ph.D., writer of Human Sexuality and Queer Science
""Indispensable insights from America's wisest observer of homosexual relationships.""
--Charles Kaiser, writer of The homosexual Metropolis
""Gay humans search the liberty to marry for a similar mixture of purposes as non-gay humans, and for many, love and dedication are crucial. Drawing on his extraordinary services and many years of news from his sufferers, Richard Isay explores the demanding situations and cost of romantic love--how to beat our pasts and increase our current lives at home--as we construct a way forward for larger equality and inclusion in society.""
--Evan Wolfson, writer of Why Marriage Matters